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I am counsellor with over 12 years experience specializing in parenting, families, youth and mental health. I answer questions in a blunt and straightforward way so if you are looking for coddling or really touchy feely type advice thats not me I provide real solutions for your problems and concrete suggestions in other words I tell you the plain truth I don't sugarcoat.

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okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice,

Wow this guy sounds really intense. If you don't feel the same then you need to tell him and you should tell him that he is making you really uncomfortable by saying this stuff to you, if he continues then I would end it. It is not fair to him or you if you guys are in different places. You are right however that 13 is way to young to be announcing things like he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

I do have a question as well, whats his home life like? Are his parents loving and caring? Maybe he is latching on this severely because he does not feel loved or wanted anywhere else?

Hope this helps

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(Rating: 4) yeah i know for a fact that thats not the reason but thanx anyway.ill try talking to him but i know its going to be hard
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