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say I like this guy, and I do, I think he likes me too. I mean, he sends all the right signals and we flirt a ton. But Im friends with his younger sister, his best friend hooked up with me awhile ago, and we are on the same swim team, so theres a few obstacles ffor you. I want to make some sort of move. I dont know what though. He gives me rides home and stuff and we also go out to eat after most practices. If anyone had any ideas...that'd be great.
i kno this probably isnt the answer you want to hear, but maybe it isnt such a good idea to make a move on him. for one thing his sister might be totally weirded out and that could risk the friendship you have with her. another thing is that even if you did end up getting together with this guy it might cause problems between him and his best friend. i highly recomend that you dont make him choose between you and his best friend, that usually doesnt end well. being on the swim team with him doesnt make things easy either, if things would ever end badly between you too you'd have a constant reminder of it and feel extremely uncomfortable. so i guess wut im trying to say is that you should seriously reconsider making a move on this guy in the first place. do you think its really worth it?

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