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I am counsellor with over 12 years experience specializing in parenting, families, youth and mental health. I answer questions in a blunt and straightforward way so if you are looking for coddling or really touchy feely type advice thats not me I provide real solutions for your problems and concrete suggestions in other words I tell you the plain truth I don't sugarcoat.

I am really worried these days with the easy access to the internet and all the false information that is out there and the fact that people believe it!! So please ask first. I don't claim to have all the answers but I can claim that NOTHING will shock me you can try though :)

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Well back in september me and this dood BOB started going out. which made me real happy cus i liked him ALOT for a few years now. everything was good until one day he randomly dumped me for no reason he told my best friend to tell me it was over cus he felt like it. that was the only reason. It really hurt me. we didnt talk for 2 months. and we started going back out again in febuary. i guess things were decent. then over time i started seeing problems with him and then one day he randomly ditched me and would not talk to me for like 2 weeks (we live like 4 houses away from eachother and both have fones, so theres no rreason) and when ever id call him hes always busy with this slutty chick and his little friends. and the time that we ever did spend together, he was always high, and because he was high, he didnt listen to me, or understand, or focus and he would be such an ass.
So i called him and told him what i just told you and said we need to break up he said Ok iwas sorta thinking that too. and yet again didnt give me a reason on why he wanted to , or why he blew me off for two weeks. But for somereason, i still really like him. i feel like im over him, then i suddenly reallllly miss him. and im wondering if hes worth missing. I realllly loved him. he was the most greatest thing i had, until he started being so lame. I did like him, but i know i dont ned that kind of person in my life, some one whose always high and ditching me and breaks up with out a reason. i dont know if hes worth my compassion..?

Ok I don't know how old you are but it sounds like you are a teen, I would suggest you get out now. You don't want to start on a cycle of dating losers, also no one deserves to be treated the way you were, he sounds like a user and an abuser.

You are worth dating a guy who not only treats you with respect but realizes that he has a true gift in dating you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks much. btw im 15 and he recenttly turned 16
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