hey xxx
me ... im 18 a dance and singing teacher .. i have been through ALOT trust me guys you have no idea , but i have stayed strong and so can all of you that think that worth isnt worth living or you dont think you will be able to do what you have to .
I wont judge you on anything that you write about , im a down to earth fun loving gyal and just a normal teen that has problems that need sorting like every one else
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My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.
The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).
I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.
My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.
My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully? (link)
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hey xx
Being bullied is nasty and people that are getting bullied are scared of them. Getting your other son to intimidate Gary isnt setting a very good example to others. Garys parents have the attitude that its ok and Garys mum and dad havent bought up Gary very well in my opinion.
The next step could be talking to the head of the school or driving your child to school and picking him up. Also asking the head teacher to ask other teachers to keep an eye on Gary and your child may help the situation.
mwah xxxxxxxxx
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