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i was raped when i was younger and i don't know what to do anymore it haunts me in my sleep. I think about it all the time and when i see any of the guys that did that to me i freak out i start crying and they were all over five years ago so i can't go to the police and tell them i was raped i don't know any of the guys names. All i know is that they used to date my mom and when i told my mom that they were doing that to me she didn't believe me. I am now in foster care and i don't ever see my mom. But that fact that i was raped is scary and i need all the help and advice that i can get. so please anyone help me.

Darling,
Why didn't you mother believe you and how did you get in foster care. This is a serious matter and it will haunt you for the rest of you life unless you do something about it. Maybe the man will not get caught and maybe he will but the going to the police is neccassarry. ASAP. The longer you wait the better the chance he gets away, the reason you need to go to the police is they can get you help. Therapy may not sound like the answer but it can solve those nightmares that wont leave you be. Also they can go to your mom and she can help with the search. Men like him shouldn't be allowed into the world to corrupt other young womens life. Hard to think about but not all men are like this. I know that you know this and its hard to justget over and go to a guy but the easier it is for you to open up to a guy the easier it will be to get over this. There will always be a scar but maybe you can help other young girls all over the world by explaining what you've been through and why its important for people to listen and respond and for them to tell. Hope everything heals as it should. Always here,
Vennessa.





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Hey Darling,
It may be hard but your doing the right thing.I know its going to take all your courage to do this but i have complete and total respect for the courage you have. It amazing. Help other girls. Ask the police department if they know any programs for young girls that have been through being raped;and if your not comfortable helping other yet, thats fine. It takes time to heal. I've been praying for you and all the best of luck finding him!
Hoping the best for you,
Vennessa.

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(Rating: 5) thanks i'm going to the police today and they well hopefully help me i told my mom and she still doesn't believe me no matter what i do she won't.
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