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Ok, here is my problem. I have a group of friends. We all were pretty cool with eachother until this year. One girl was acting annoying etc. etc. and making some huge mistakes. My other friends got made at her and talk about her everytime I come over because they are dissappointed and mad at her because she made mistakes, especially a huge one. I agree with them on some topics, but not on others. The friend who makes mistakes is still my friend...but sometimes she goes and makes a white lie to me every now and then and it makes me uncomfortable. I can not side with her or else I'll lose some of my good friends, but I cant side with them either because I do not agree with everything they are doing. I am being used and pestered by the annoying friend sometimes. I try to talk to her about it....but I never can say the things I want to say right. I need help! What should I do?

--Stuck in the Middle

i think, you should tell your friends when you dont agree with them. you could say like 'i agree with you about blah blah, but i think you're being a little unreasonable on blah blah'. something like that. you dont have to agree with everything they say. you can have your opinions about certain situations.

With your other friend, you should just be honest and straightforward with her. She might not want to hear it, but that's what friends are for right? being able to tell each other the truth in situations. i hope i helped at least somewhat and things work out for you.

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