Just your average nice girl next door. Married the love of my life at 24, widowed at 29.
I love cats and sailing and get to the beach as often as I can.
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My friend met this guy and he is the sweetest guy ever and stuff, and im wicked jealous of her, and this guy talks to me about her because they like eachother and they know it and he told her he loved her and stuff and she said it back but idk what to do because im always talking to him about her..like im her best friend so he asks me for advice about what she likes & stuff, but idk...this whole thing is getting to me and getting me WICKED jealous like, its not right to feel this jealous about anything...so what should i do? Should i stop talking to him? should i stop talking about him with my best friend, or should i keep helping them? because this is like tearing me apart...anything helps thanks (link)
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Feeling jealous is totally understandable. You're kind of caught in the middle and all you're hearing is stuff about them. How about talking about You and what you like once in awhile. If they are SO close and saying ILY then they should be talking to each other!!! You don't need to keep helping at all. Next time either one starts asking you stuff, just say - Hey go ask her/him! And don't feel bad about it. You have a life too. It's nice that you did that in the beginning, but you don't have to do it forever.
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thanks..that was good advice. me and the guy have a good friendship now too though. like i talk about myself and ask him stuff about him so its not like ALL we talk about is her, because im normally the one brining her up now that i think about it...but thank you that was good.
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