missmissgurl's advice column

I don't understand why boys take advantage of girls. For example, if a boy knows a girl likes him, he'll ask for sex from her because I guess he thinks that if a girl has feelings for her, it makes her seem feeble, and what makes matters worse is if the girl does it, it does make her look weak. This happened to one of my friends, and it's so infuriating! What makes me even more pissed is she gave him head because she said "she really likes him." I'm just really mad right now and this was more-so to vent, but I want to tell me friend that what she did was wrong, and how naive she is for doing this. I feel like I always have to look out for her, so can someone please tell me what so say to her? Thanks

It sounds like she's insecure and thinks the boy will leave her and move on if she doesn't do this stuff or think she's "imature". Yeah, I know it's stupid, but this has happened to me, just not as bad. Just tell her you shouldn't have to do things like that to feel accepted and wanted by some guy. She may really really like this one but I'd tell her it sounds like she's being used. It hurts less to leave and move on than to wait for him to move on and realize u were used. It's always up to her, but I'd just ask her if she really thinks he cares about her and not just what she can give. Hope that Helped !!!!Good Luck w/ your friend!!

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(Rating: 5) thanks a lot !

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