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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3
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well...im female, and 15 years old.
i'm not very popular, but i wouldnt say im a geek either.
i really dont feel like i have any friends. im sort of friends, or what you would call aquiantences (sp) with probably 15 people, but i dont actually feel like i have someone to be there for me when i need it.
school really sucks. nobdoy call tell though. i always act hyper and friendly but its beginning to get harder lately, just because.
i would like to know if other people feel like this...or if its just me. adivce would be nice too. sorry if i sound depressed or something. i dont think i am, just the place im in right now does not fit very well with my personality.
thanks for your time :)
ps.
please dont say join clubs or something to get new friends because my school is very small. i could name every single student in my grade. most of the upperclassman too. i know everyone...so yeah
can i say that i think i know you? that just you asking that question you have helped me?
I am not just going to give good advice here, this question i feel obligated to tell you i am completely the same. At school everybody knows me as the hyper perky always happy girl but the truth is i always feel like if i was ever really in need, nobody would be there.
the truth is that no matter what everybody makes it seem like, most people don't have really good friends they just act like it.
What i do is i find one person im capatable with and i become best friends with that one person. To me, this at least ensures that at least one person will be there for me
Just don't go around trying to make a million firends, focus on building one strong relationship then move to the next and so on. Because otherwise you'll just end up a girl with a million aqaintances.
and finally, tell some personal about yourself to your friends. If you open up, they feel like they know you. A one on one conversation where you expose what you really feel or something personal will make the other person feel almost, connected with you. That is how great friendships start
good luck and, well... thanks
you actually helped me realize where im at =]
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thanks :D
that made me feel better knowing im not the only one! lol
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