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I am a pepper fiend. I put pepper on practically everything but sweets. My question is, could that be misconstrued as an insult?

My brother's girlfriend kindly made dinner for our family for the first time, a few weeks back. Chicken. Of course, I went nuts with the pepper shaker. The way she looked at me really hurt my feelings. I don't think she purposely shot me down. I think she was just more in shock that I had the nerve to do that. She eats dinner with us everynight, though. She knows my routine. It's nothing new. I still felt like a jerk. I didn't say anything then, but I probably should have. Now it's too late, and I would just like to gather multiple opinions for future reference. I'd hate to unintentionally put somebody (who so generously devoted their time and effort to please me) down.

So if you worked all day to prepare a meal for your guests (even family) and someone were to pepper the hell out of it, would you take offense?

Personally, I wouldn't take offense. Were you being a bit agressive about shaking the pepper out? Maybe she thought you were being rude by using up so much pepper. I don't know, if I were you I'd just forget about the incident and move on. But, here's a tip: next time you're over someone else's house, don't put *as much* pepper on your food as you usually do, and pour the pepper on lightly, not as if you were trying to stab your food, lol.

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(Rating: 5) Oh, very well. Thanks for your time. I appreciate your effort. You've been a big help!! Thank you!!
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