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I am really confused what to do. Long time ago when I was 13, I met a guy who had a crush on me. It developed until I felt the same way. that guy was 3 years older than me and he felt I was too young so he decided not to pursue anything beyond friends.
Now I am 19. I've moved on with the other though it really hurt because i love him so much until now. I have accepted the facts that we are not meant to be. I met this awesome guy. He really loves me more than anything else in the world. Because of this love from him, I want to be with him because i know he will make me happy. So, I am with him right now. Not long ago, the guy I met 6 years ago and I started chatting online. then, he told me that he loves me and he is willing to wait for me. I am in overseas studying so we only communicate through email/chatting. I know i love him more than the guy I am with right now. But I know for sure that the guy I am with right now loves me more than the guy i met 6 years ago. What should I do? Should I stay with the guy I am with right now? or should I go with the guy I've been waiting for all my teenage years? I'm not even sure if the guy i met 6 years ago is serious or just playing around. I dont want to get hurt from him anymore because it's so hard to move on. I have never loved anyone as much as I love him. please help.
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This is a sticky situation. I say go with your heart not your head.
If you really love this guy you met 6 years ago then stay in contact, get to know him again, find out how much you have in common. You may find yourself just wanting to be friends.
As for the guy you are with now, he loves you so don't hurt him, be fair to him. If you find yourself wanting to be with the other guy don't pull this guy along. It will only make things worse in the long run and you will hurt him.
You are still only 19 years old, your young and have your whole life ahead of you.
Work out what you want, what you think feels right, make yourself happy.
Good luck...hope i helped. :)
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