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i had one boyfriend about 3 yrs ago.

he was my dream guy! he was athletic.. funny.. smart... and we were PERFECT. or so i thought! 'my prince in shining armor turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil' and matt dumped me to go out with his ex! ive had other boyfriends since but ive never trusted any of them because im still not over this one guy! it drives me CRAZY! ive dumped 3 guys because of him... because you cant have a boyfriend if you cant trust them. matt tried to get back together with me... but i was afraid of him making me experience the pain again.. and i dumped him. he was REALLY mad because he said he had changed and all of that bull. how could i have believed him? i went out with 6 girls b4 he asked to get back together with me! but still. i want to like other guys, but i cant get over what matt did to me! it was my first boyfriend, and i really loved that guy. he ruined it. for a while he ruined me. for a while i was emo (no cutting.. just black stuff). and when i finally got over it i couldnt love any other guys for long. help me! i dont want to break any more hearts, hearts that are undeserved to be broken. sorry this was so long!

seriously he wasnt even worth it. aa guy that dumps uu for another girl is undeserving of a girl like you. dont worry about relationships right away and take time to get over him first. ii know its hard to forget ur first love. but in time you'll realize that it wasnt true love and he wasnt worth your love.
no one expects you to trust them fully in the beginning of a relationship. so date some guys longer than you have and hopefully that trust will grow.

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