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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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PLEASE help me! i'm scared and pissed to!
my brother (who is 13 and about 270 pounds- i'm 16, f, and only 115pounds!!) is always threatening to beat the shit out of me! what do i do?? my therapist knows, and she says not to call the police or anything, but to try and let it blow over. when he says something to me (he calls me a lebian or a faggot-so does my mom- b/c i'm bi, also he calls me a highschool dropout b/c i failed 1 year of school!) i really just want to knock him out but he's so big!! and he's so much stronger than me!! ive been known to knock the shit out of some ppl, but they were girls and my size too! he really scares me, and he pisses me off sooo bad!!! he just makes me so mad and he's mean to me and my mother backs him up 100%!! what should i do??? i am tired of living like this!!!
okay- what you need to do is ignore your therapist- it is very much illegal for a sibling to hit you- just as it would be for any other random person in the world to hit you. by calling the police (best done when you have very viible bruises on you- to prove your case)- they can help you, believe it or not. things like this dont come up too often- but i know how you feel. i grew up in a highly abusive home- gettin the back end from my jerk of a father- but just because hes younger thn you ad because hes your brother doesnt mean you have to take any kind of crap from him- as well as your mother- if your mother hits you bad enough to leave bruises and scars- then she will most likely be punished too. try not to wait too long before you call the police- but definetely wait until you have bruises to prove your case. get out of that situation as soon as possible! good luck girl- and my IM s/n is on my site if you need me- dont be a stranger- im here to help ya!
(Rating: 5) thanks.
i mean it really doesnt seem that harsh to me. maybe cuz i grew up with it i guess. but i'll definately im you sometime b/c it's nice to have someone to talk to about it.