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Ello,
Before I start talking about myself, I would like to talk about advice. The best advice you can get is from your soul and guardian (parents). I am just a kid who realized that when she asked for advice the answers were similar to what she would of done or what she wanted to do deep down but didn't realize it. I am very truthful because I know what it feels like to ask a so-called friend to only have them tell you something to just make you feel better instead of what needs to be done. Thankyou.

Anyway....

I am me.
I love moshpits, concerts, meeting the band and chilling at the after party. Being a friend. gaia ( tisue ) an anime roleplaying comunity. makeing fakelip piercings. .school
German Expressionalism (probably spelt that wrong). The history of emo music.

I hate drama, when things die... like fish,
very one-sided political views. illegal drugs (8 of my cousins died, could u blame me?),
spelling things wrong which I do online all the time,get a mark lower then a 85% on a test (that totally pisses me off and ruins my day),falling for someone who you think likes you back and then finding out they never liked you at all and then he fuc*s ur best friend and say ur ok with it .being all "all". being around a group of people you dont know . feeling sick. Jello!!! The sun. My World My Butt and Other Big Round Things (1 of my favorite books)

advice

Ok so heres my problem, I am really just feeling lonely right now. My friends and everyone I know basically is going out with someone and well nobody really seems to like me. I have plenty of friends male and female, I guess a pretty good personality (otherwise they wouldnt hang out with me right?)I just dont get it. I also have pretty low self esteem so right now I'm pretty much guessing I'm ugly or something because no matter what I do nobody likes me. My friends always have the girls coming after them even! And I'm always pushed aside...Sigh. Any advice, and I for one seriously don't have faith in that good personality is what they're looking for thing. Thanks
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Ok, I know where your coming from. My bff got a boyfriend of a guy I liked. Everything changed. EVERYTHING. She doesnt tell me things, and now that he broke up with her she deep down is blameing me. But thats another story, so anyway... selfesteem. For 2 years I was in a deep depression and had no selfesteem because I was verbally abused everyday. I can relate.

One day I woke up out of my suicidal state and said "who cares what you think, i'm not ok but that doesnt mean i'm not worth anything". The "i'm not ok" line is from a My Chemical Romance song that I absolutely love. Try listening to them, it may release your anger. Write poetry, stories, anything too. They are great. When I was younger I wrote alot. I have been recently recognized by scholastic, anthropology of young american writers, etc. You can be too ^^
Don't let yourself be pushed aside. You are so much more then they'll ever be. You know why? Because the people that suffer in life succeed. Who have you ever heard of that is famous and never felt pain? Martin Luther King was prejustice against because he was black. Helen Keller was blinde, deaf and who knows what else. The best songs are the songs written by people that can share their feelings. They have feelings and are intouch with them because they have suffered, in one way or another.

You are worth so much more, i'll pray for you and you keep trying to survive, and we'll call it even (:

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