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Q: Ohh boy, i just turned 15..had sex for my first time, didnt use a condom, im so stupid and im so scared now :( im stressing out so much and i dont know what to know, i had sex like exactly a week ago now, and i dont know if im bloaded or what but my stomach is starting to get big and ive gained 3 pounds-ive also been noticing im eating A LOT latly :-/ should i go get checked out..or take a pregnancy test? ohh lord help me!!
OOOOhh goodness gracias
ok first
BREATHE.
It's like i could hear the panic from my computer!
Definitly get a test.
I don't know if you get those kinda of pregnancy symptoms that early. You'll know by your first missed period.
Alright and about the results of the test-
If it's negative, thank Jesus for not letting his swimmers find a home! And just don't have sex again until you're ready!
If it's positive than you have three options.
Adoption
Abortion
Or keep it.
I, personally, would give it up for adoption. You're giving a baby to someone who is willing to love and care for it. That is, unless you would want to.
But before you get into that just go and buy a test from a drug store.
And like I said, don't have sex until you're ready. "Don't do anything you wouldn't want your parents to watch you do."
Let me know how it goes.
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Thank u so much, im glad you care :) sorry i sent u another question, i didnt mean to. dont worry ill keep in touch, again THANK You :)

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