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My boyfriend and I (well, ex) dated for about 2 years until back in January when I started to feel that the relationship we getting to be too serious (I was only 17...now 18). We were talking one night and figured out that we started to drift because we weren't ready for such a strong relationship. We loved each other (real love, not kiddish love) but just weren't ready. So we broke up.
After the break up, I found out that he cheated on me while we started drifting. I, of course, was furious at him. Now it's been about 5 months since I found out and we've started talking again. Not only that, but we both want to get back together. Im over the cheating.
My question is, even though I do still love him and want to be with him, how do I know that it won't end up like last time? How do I know that I won't get freaked out by the seriousness of the relationship? I mean, this is a guy I want to marry someday, as in after I finish college (i'm starting in the fall), not any time soon. But then again, I don't want to loose him.
Did that make any sense? If it did to you, then I'd really like some advice because I'm so confused.
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hey, im sorry i must have not been focused when i first read/responded to your question. let me try again....
I think that you should go for it. you are in love, and since u want to marry this guy down the road then you should give it another chance now. you LOVE this guy and he LOVES you, go for it. you wont get freaked out by the seriousness of the relationship, if you take things one step at a timee, dont think about the marrage part, think about haveing fun and being with the guy you love. good luck!
*Jackie*
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