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I am 23 years old, I have 4 kids, and have been through everything you could possibly think of. Ask and I shall tell. You may not like everything I say, but the truth hurts and if you take what I say into consideration you might find that it can help you even if you alter it some.

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my boyfriend has been an utter jerk to me lately. i dont know what to do. i found out a bunch of lies he been holdin out on me. but i cant break up with him because hes the father of my child- i just dont know what to do with him anymore. all he wants to do is hang out with his guys while i sit at home pregnant and in a crappy mood. hes blaming his ignorance on me, and says that im becoming the type of person he doesnt want to be around anymore. what in the world can i do to let him know tha its NOT all me, and that pregnancy CAUSES YOU TO HAVE MOODSWINGS???!!! hes jsut not gtting the concept.

Girl! I know how you feel! I have 4 kids and the truth is that the pregnancy part is by far the worst. Men do not and will never know what it is like to be pregnant or to have a baby. The truth is that most of them don't care because they know that they don't have to experience it. Sometimes in life, people have to realize what they have but they only do that after they lose it. If you can't get through to him by talking, don't talk anymore and take action. Remember, it is a proven fact that men see more than they hear. Keep that in mind as you work this problem out.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much. i like that i got sumthn from a mother's perspective. thanks.
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