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Age: 24
Member Since: May 3, 2006
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my boyfriend has been an utter jerk to me lately. i dont know what to do. i found out a bunch of lies he been holdin out on me. but i cant break up with him because hes the father of my child- i just dont know what to do with him anymore. all he wants to do is hang out with his guys while i sit at home pregnant and in a crappy mood. hes blaming his ignorance on me, and says that im becoming the type of person he doesnt want to be around anymore. what in the world can i do to let him know tha its NOT all me, and that pregnancy CAUSES YOU TO HAVE MOODSWINGS???!!! hes jsut not gtting the concept. (link)
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Lying is never ok, no matter how "moody" you are getting toward him. He should be helping you and supporting you while you are pregnant, not treating you in this way. I bet it stems from him not being ready for all this new responsibility (the poor guy right? Meanwhile you're the one who actually has to give birth. Selfish, I know). You can't let this behavior slide, you need to let him know that you will not put up with it. This happens a lot in these situations, one person will start treating the other badly because they CAN. Like you said: "I can't break up with him", it's very manipulitive. If it were me, I would throw caution to the wind and tell him to get out until he is ready to treat you properly. Honey, if he is going to act this way, do you really want to raise a child with him...showing that child that the way he treats you is an acceptable way for a man to treat a woman?
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well, he doesnt like, hit me or anything. and most of the time he shows me alot of respect- but lately- hes been in weird moods where he doesnt want to talk to me- just argue with me. thank you though.
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