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I hate my dad..I'm not joking. I honestly do and not just for some stupid reason.
My dad always is threatening my mom with a divorce and stuff she starts crying. I hate seeing her cry when she never even did anything to deserve this. He always is calling her horrible names and cussing at her and me. He hits her sometimes too..she almost called the police. He even hit me once..
I'm so scared of him and so is my mom and my brother. I haven't talked to any of them yet about this. Whenever I hear him yelling or something I'm usually in my room and I start crying because it really is starting to upset me. I can't even TALK to my own dad..whenever he says something to me all the horrible things that he has done to my mom and I in the past just flash back in my mind and I can't speak and I have tears in my eyes. Everytime I hear him screaming at my mom I just want to go down there and tell him to calm down and leave her alone but, I just can't..I'm too scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't talk to anyone in my family about this.
How do I help my mom and get my dad to stop yelling all the time? (link)
I have never liked my dad either. It's hard to not like someone you're supposed to love. If he hits you and your mom a lot you should call the police. Even if he doesn't hit you and you're mom that much what he is doing is verbaly abusive and is just as bad. I would suggest you talk to your mom about it, how it makes you feel, what you want to happen, and tell her what her options are. I did that with my mom and her maternal insticts came over and she made my dad go away, she finally stood up to him and it worked, we are a lot happier now.


Rating: 5
Come to think of it, things really would be alot better if my dad was gone. Thank you SO much!




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