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hey im 13 and ive had many problems thoughout my life and i would like to help you with any of yours. I will try to answer your questions with thought and truthfully. My favorite catogories are love life and friendships. so if you have any questions ask away!

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Well, I have this friend. He's not super close, but he is a good friend of mine. We have had a lot of talks about smoking pot when several of my friends started and I said "no one thinks it's a big deal anymore and I don't get it." He said "I still think it's a big deal and I think it's pointless and would never try because I would be too scared." Then, he showed up to my friend's party high and I don't get it. I thought he meant that and I haven't had the chance to talk to him yet. I'm really upset about it, and I don't know what to say to him. Does anyone have any idea how to deal with something like this? Like what to say to him?

[keep in mind we're only in 8th grade]
thanks soo much for any help I get !

i had about the same deal. Some things you can talk to him about is how much harm hes putting himself into. Tell him how much you care for him and that you dont want him to get hurt. He might not want to listen near his friends so i would take him some where private and just confront him about how you feel about him when he smokes pot. Also talk to him about why he even does it. Some people do it for the attention and to fit in others do it to relief themselves. Talk it out with him and just tell him how much harm hes putting himself into .....i kno it wasnt much but i hope i helped...
sincerly,
katie

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(Rating: 5) thanks that helps !
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