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I have been with my b/f for about a yr and a half now. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Last year i was at a friends house and one of my b/f's good friends showed up. He asked if i wanted to hang out. Went to his house and he put the moves on me. I refused to have sexual contact with him. Even though i had the urge to. He told me that he was sorry and that he couldnt help but wonder why i was with this other guy and that he thought i was pretty.

Ever since that time, he always makes comments to my b/f about how my b/f doesnt treat me right. Or he will joke around about how im his type. We live in a tight-knit town where everyone knows everyone. I see this guy everyday and he always smiles or stares and then looks away.

My major problem is that im finding more and more that im not in-love with my bf anymore as he has become physically violent.

My sister-in-law thinks that i should leave my bf and go with this guy. I am quite tempted as he and i have so much in common and he knows how to treat a lady. I also have a medical condition where i cannot have children. And this guy has full custody of his little girl. Every time i see him with her i melt because he is such a good father.

Am i wrong for wanting to try and have a relationship with this other guy?
And do you think he would be interested in trying to have a relationship?

Well this is a very tough questio .... first of you need to dumep the boyfriend because obviously he's abusing you and you deseve beter than that and the fact that you dont like him that much anymore for those reasons second off i wouldn't jump from guy to guy if you get what i'm saying i mean listen to how bad this sounds o yeah that one girl dumped her b/f and went out with his best friend like really quick ... sorry...but you dont want to have that reputation and about the bestfriend??? he has a kid???? are you confortable with thhat???? anyways what i think you should do is dump the b/f and gett closer to his bestfriend


i hoped i helped -Brianna

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(Rating: 4) I am very comfortable with the child...you do make a good point tho...thanks hun
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