about

Hey yall. :]

My name's Amy Gwendoline. I'm 16 years young, and I'm a junior in high school.

xo

advice

well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.


people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual

and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared



because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things






WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person

People think you're a lesbian because you don't have sex? How lame is that. Seriously, don't think it's uncommon for girls to be scared to have sex. I'm not "scared" or such, but I'm still a virgin & I'm waiting until marriage.

A lot of girls are scared their first time, especially because it hurts. But, usually you'll do something like oral beforehand, so it won't hurt AS much. Plus, you'll be doing it with a guy who really cares about you and he'll do anything to make you feel completely comfortable. If it hurts soo much then he'll stop & you can try it again another time. That's what happens most of the time when it comes to having sex for the first time. :]

-aMy.

[view]

(Rating: 5) thank you
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker