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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot (link)
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Hi, how about an answer from an actual adult? Yes, it would be a ridculous decision. I'm glad you are so in love and happy, and my advice to you would be to enjoy it, live it up, persue any future plans that you want. I promise you that it will not work out, but it doesn't matter because you should have a good time with it in the carefree way that you have beem while it lasts. Sure, say yes! Do it all! when it ends, and when you're older, you'll look back on yourself at this age and just smile. I hope you don't actually tie the knot though, divorces are messy and it's doesn't look very respectable when you are in your early 20's and you aready have an ex-husband. Again, it doesn't matter because (statistically speaking) you probably won't get that far. If you decide that is really the best thing for you, then more power to you. Have fun!
Good for them. Now I just think you are an idiot.
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no offense but my parents got married at 16, and they have been married for 32 years.
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