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I asked a question earlier, on what the big deal girls had over celebrities and athletes with a six pack. I got great answers to that question, but then something else struck me when I read one of the answers I got:
- answered Monday June 12 2006, 10:51 pm:
***Oh and something you want to avoid: mentioning ANYTHING about a girl celebrity. Like "Man she is hot!" Because your girfriend will not be with you too much longer after you do that. ***
The part I put in stars struck me, but why though? It's very true, and a lot of my guy friends have told me stories about when their girlfriends got mad or upset with them for saying a celebrity was hot. I'm not asking for the rights to go around saying so, or that I want to either, but what I have noticed is that a lot of the girls do that too. I've heard about maybe every single celebrity out there from girls, even my girlfriend, but even when I mention one [which I've always tried not to] I get a bad reaction and they are offended, sometimes mad.
So should I say something to my girlfriend about that? I mean I see it as unfair, mostly because while I have tried to say something to her about the situation, I hear the: oh but I have you and thats what I really care about... but I try saying that too and its not acceptable. What do you think? Thanks. (link)
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That is the silliest thing I have ever heard. Seriously, how insecure must you be (male or female) if it actually bothers you to hear about how your significant other finds a celebrity attractive? Of course they find them attractive! The reason they are celebrities is because they are some of the most attractive people in the world! That doesn't have a damn thing to do with how attractive the person finds you. I have never come across anyone with this attitude, and if I did I would find that kind of pettiness and insecurity a tremendous turn off.
Sorry, but clearly you seem to be part of the insecure group.
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