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In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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1) Lots of people get pregnant by precum. It is totally possible and you should expect to get pregnant if you continue to do this.
2)If your boyfriend is young and relatively inexperienced then 3-7 minutes isn't uncommon. With age and experience, he will learn to "control" himself and last longer. If he is in his 20's for example, most men last much longer then that.
3)It isn't likely that you would be ovulating during/at the end of your period (which is when you are fertile for pregnancy) but many young people have irregular ovulation cycles so it is impossible to predict. In addition, since sperm can live inside you for up to seven days, you may still be at risk for pregnancy when you do ovulate. If you took at test (and it is around the time of your next expected period) and it was negative I wouldn't worry. It IS a little early but don't stress until your period is missed- then take another test. If it is still neagtive them you are good. Just remember ot use a condom (the pill is better though) every time from now on.
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