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Q: ok i like this girl and i find it werid because i never knew i was gay until this party but at the party she started to hit on my and i went along with it because i thought she was really cool but what i didn't know is that she had a girlfriend well later that night things happened and we both fault bad about her girlfriend so my heart broke a little but we deceide to keep this between her and i and obviously that didn't work because people found out some how. Then we started to hang out but everytime we hung out i started to like her more and more and she became to be on me more and more and everytime she would tell me that she's going to break up with her girlfriend but she doesn't and now i'm hurt inside because of all these lies i've tired everything from trying to ignore her to trying to talk it out with her nothing works ... what should i do ?

-From a broken hearted girl

You're girl is a PLAYER.
She wants to have her cake and eat it too!
In other words...
she wants to have you there to have fun with but she aslo wants her girlfriend to commit to.
So right now she has the upper hand in your relationship, because she can have either one of you.
I say you LEAVE HER. Because if she really, truly loved you more than that other girl, this wouldn't be an issue because she would had already left the other girl.
So forget her, move on, and find someone else who wants you, and ONLY you.
&hearts

Rating: 5

Thank you so much i totally agree =)

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I'm really getting tired of people making columns because all of their freinds have them and they just want to put a cute picture of themselves online of them kissing themselves in the mirror, or whatever. I'm really serious about this and, believe it or not, I try to give advice. That is, unless i get a dumb question. I've had around 3 or 4 accounts on here before, so I'd say im pretty experienced. :)
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