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I'm a vegan. I like glam rock and androgynous males. I have two cats. they're mystical beings. I'm going to college in less than a month.

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My mum told me I'm fat today and I know I am but the way she said it made me feel like I should be anerexic.

She was petit in high school and when she had me she was still relly small. When she had my brother she got ffat but I feel alot of pressure to be thin. This summer I want to go gym like everyday but I don't know how to lay off me...she really bothers me abut my weigh and I will lose it...but in time!!!!!

She makes me feel bad...she actually makes me want to eat!!

I'd bet you money that you're not fat at all. my mom told me yesterday that I could stand to lose a few pounds.

I'm a size six. last year I lost 40 pounds and regained most of it. I feel exactly the same.

this, however, is not enough for mothers. or anyone. a lot of negative compliments tend to rise out of personal insecurity. in middle school I made fun of dorks. hell, I am a dork. my mother is well past 200 pounds and wears plus sizes in most stores. she'll never admit to it and she'll force herself into clothes she buys that match mine because I'm young and cool and hip. but she knows inside that she can't be me, so she wants to make me into her. right now she's dieting. again. I think she wants to balance out the weight between us, but I may be wrong.

now then. you're not fat. if you think you're fat you should look into some fat pride groups before diet groups. even if you're thin and waify you'll still feel "fat". it's all about confidence. I can carry 150 pounds and feel as fantastic as I did at 135. I can wear the same clothes. I don't feel guilty when I eat something I want to eat. consider the number of beautiful big girl models. fat is mental. ignore your mother.

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(Rating: 5) Well I'm 185...so basically i am fat. hey how long did it take to lose ur 40 lbs?
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