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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
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I just found out that my best friend's dad passed away today. I knew that he had some kind of cancer and she'd been visiting him in the hospital for some time now, I also know that she did NOT get along with him. I never met him because he lived in SC and her and her mom lived in NC. (they weren't divorced, it's actually kind of confusing) Anyway, I'm just not too sure what to say to her. We've been friends longer than I can remember and I know this must be tough for her. I've had some friends pass away, but the only family I've had pass away was my great grandmother and my sister- I was young when my great grandmother passed away and I wasn't even born yet when my sister passed away, so I don't know everything she's going through.

I was just wondering if anyone here lost a parent and what others said to you that was comforting.

I plan on telling here that I'm here for her no matter where I am or what time it is, and I will be there, but somehow that just doesn't seem like enough... I don't know, I'm just looking for some advice on what I can say and what would be comforting. Thanks in advance.

This happened to one of my friends, 2 actually, i think you are on the right track saying im going to be here for you, if you ever need to call me or to talk im just a call away kinda thing. i think its best if you dont say oh im sorry blahddy blahddy blah because that just reminds them over and over and other people are going to do that. you are going to want to be right there, but she might just need a little space, just talk to her and see. =)
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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice, you totally helped.
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