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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
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13/f

I hate myself. I look at myself in the mirror and just want to fricken cut myself, but I won't cut, thats just how I feel. I hate how I look. People are like your perfect weight, but I feel like I won't ever be pretty unless I have a completely flat stomach and muscular theighs. I just can't seam to accept myself. I've been told I'm pretty and stuff. It's just I see all these other girls with perfect hair and skin and I feel ugly! Then, I see these girls w/ all these hot guys, and it makes me feel like I'll never have that. I'm really sad. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. I don't wanna talk to my parents. I only have one friend who I would talk to but he just tells me to go see a therapist or get antidepressants. I just can't seam to feel happy. So my question is, has any girls or guys gone through this and tell me tips on how to feel better. thanks..

Oh i have been there and done that, i have finally learned to accept it though, because im sure you are beautiful the way you are hun, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. i have also heard and believe you have to love and accept yourself before you can love and accept someone else, which makes pretty good sense right? also theres a guy out there for you who likes you because you are the way you are. i promise. try working out, that always makes my self esteem go higher and make me have a better opinion about myself, go running a few days a week to build the muscles up in your legs and then do some crunches or sit ups everynight.
hope i helped, if you need anything or want to talk further IM me or drop one in my inbox. you are beautiful the way you are i assure you that though, because everyone is beautiful in their own way. oh yeah even the "perfect" girls have some insecurity, they just dont let it show, because i also assure you no one is perfect. hope i made you feel a little better. take care. =D
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