i am always fine around boys-except if they are my boyfriend. like, if i know i like a guy, and i know that they like me, but we arent together, i am fine and not nervous. but then if we were like a couple... and we were like talking or something, i get so nervous and stuff. how can i help this?
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I understand you. In fact, I was just having this problem. I've got a million friends who are guys and im usually even fine if i have to turn down a date to someone im not dating. But when there is someone who Im dating and they ask me out and I cant go, I always feel terrible! But on dates or even if u 2 are just alone, you're going to need to talk. And trust me, I know nervous. Its an akward feeling, at least for me. But what I've learned is if you think just as though your talking to a friend, and forget your dating for just a minute, words come easily. Like intrests--- what you have in common. they say its easy to talk about that kind of stuff, but i leaves awkard silences and stuff. So I dont know about you, but i find it so much easier to go with it---- to just have fun with a really really close friend who you have feeling for. Its so much easier that way. Hope this helps!!
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ahh! thanks so much =]]]
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