hey. my name is christina benavente. and i am 13 years old. i am so good at giving people advice. if you have any questions about anything just ask me! hope you ask all the questions in the world! bye!
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when i was like 12, i would spend all the time that i could with my mom. i would actually hang up on some other friends on the phone to hang out with her. when i turned about 14, my mother maybe thought that i favored my friends over her (not true) but w/e. she probably just thought it was weird i wanted to go out with them and not want myself to be seen in the mall w/ her and stuff. but you know, that was normal like a year-two years ago. but she believed after that that there was only one way to get to a teenager. it was to talk to her/him in like foul language and get into AIM and myspace and all that. i guess its kind of cool my mom likes myspace, but not to the extreme she takes it. she goes on there at 6:00 in the morning to check if i have any comments. i never get to see when i have new comments and stuff because she looks at them first. she even responds to them! i think that is crazy and is insane and i don't know what else, but she can't just talk for me on myspace! its just wrong! i'm not saying it for any reason other than i like MY words to come out of MY mouth and not anybody else's. that really isn't the only way that she can through to me, and she KNOWS that i like her better than my friends because i don't really have any friends, well girl-friends that is. i only have one. the rest of my friends are guys, because i just get along better with them because i'm not in competition with them and we don't get jealous of each other and stuff. so, really, why does she get this way? i don't want to get into fights with her anymore..... does anyone have any words of wisdom that can help me here? thank you in advance
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well i suggest that you either get a new myspace/aol/aim or change your password and odn't let her know what it is. and then if you can make your own account on your computer. i think that the reason your mom is doing this is because she feels that you and her are seperating as mother and daughter. maybe she feels that you're embarrassed to be seen with her is because thats normal for a teenage girl to go through. i bet that your mom just wants to get closer to you to spend a little more time with you. maybe for you to tell her that you love her once in a while. thats all i ahve to say..good luck and have an awesome summer! bye
-.christina*
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