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Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I'm not going to beat around the bush, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. Today, I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. I'm not the prettiest girl ever, and I'm not celebrity skinny. I do have some meat on my bones, but I'm not huge. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we have known each other. First, it started out with her looks, but I as I got to know her, it became stronger. I haven't had a real 'crush' on a guy since then. I don't really find any boys that attractive any more, but I find myself checking out girls more and more often. Could someone please help me, and with the information I have given, tell me what you might think it is?

You are at young age where experimenting is normal. Just because you look at other females in a sexual way does not mean you are gay. I am bisexual and For me I wasn't sure at your age. I really didn't know until after I became sexually active. Being gay has a lot to do with an attraction but it has to do more with happiness and pleasure. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it until you get to that stage. What I am trying to say is that you have to try something before you know if you like it. Go with your gut on this one but don't rule out any possibilities until you know for sure. And besides you are young you have the rest of your life to figure out exactly what you want and who you want to spend it with.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. you really did help. and i want to thank you so much for it.
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