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Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)

I have also tried having a civil conversation with her as well. She gives me a one word answer, and acts as I'm not worth her words. I'm tired of feeling like shit over this..PLEASE HELP.

my advise to you is wait for her to come around. yes it might be hard to loose her, but its what she wants. she might be your best friend but best friends dont give up on your guys friendship. you have other friends you can hang out with, dont you? you know how boys play hard to get well , shes kinda doing the same thing with your friendship. she enjoys having you try to come up to her and then her be mean to you. she probably gets a kick out of it but doesnt show it. i bet if you give her a few days or weeks she will come around. and thats kinda stupid for her to forgive your other friend but not you. :/ girls are like that though. and if she doesnt want to take the time to open her eyes and realize that you didnt do nothing but be mean to her. then shes not worth your time anyways. make it seem like you dont care. and it will get to her most likely. other then that if she never wants to be your friend again then forget her shes a bitch and its her lose ! :]

hope i helped.
love , kayla

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(Rating: 4) thanks..this happened in april though..
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