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Age: 24
Member Since: May 3, 2006
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i'm 15. almost 16. my special someone is 17. almost 18. our birthday are in the next two months. where I live it's ilegal for a 18 yr. old to date anyone under the age of 16 and i'm not quite there yet. but we've agreed we're not going to let that stop us. my mom doesn't let me go out with him because last week she decided that he's a loser because he droped out of school. and she thinks he's too old for me. my someone and i have been together for 8 months and i would do anything for him and we have a undying love for each other. but it's getting so hard and now he's listening to peoples opinions and wants to break up with me because he doesn't want to try anymore. i know i could have tried more instead of trying to find someone else. but now i regreat it. i know that if i convence him that we can do this then we can make it.. i just have to get him to see that we're supposed to be together any suggestions? (link)
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I don't think you're age difference is a problem because it's pretty close together. You need to just talk to him, tell him that you want to make it work, but if he pulls away or doesn't seem as into the idea as you are; then maybe his feelings have faded. If he really felt the same way about you then he wouldn't let the opinion of anyone else get in the way. You shouldn't have to convince him honey, it should come naturally.
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Rating: 5
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thanks sweetie. i just don't wanna give up because i know we're still in love
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