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Q: my friend and i and her boyfrind went to the movies the other night and we were having fun,until those to got in a fight and she hit him,he ended up having a bad cut and then me and him went to my apartment to clean it up the n we started to hookup and then we got so in to it clothes were takin off and then she walked in on us!!i am trying to apoligize to her but she wont take my calls or anything!What shall i do?

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she's right not to talk to you. sure, she slapped him, and was mad at him for maybe, what, five minutes? But you don't hook up with a guy your best friend is either with or just broke up with. The truth is that she may or may not forgive you, & if she does, it'll take a bit of time. It may have been a mistake to hook up with said boy, but it could have been stopped. an innocent kiss at the spur of the moment would be no big deal. but going all the way, just because you felt like it, isn't easily forgivable. you could lose your friend if she takes things personally. & if she forgives her boyfriend, and not you, she shouldnt be your friend anyway, because he could've stopped it just as much as you could have.

there's nothign to do but apoligize, and be straight with your best friend, don't deny anything. try and get your friend back. but if she pushes herself away, let her go. like i said, you can't forgive what happened easily. let me know what happens.

Thanx it really helped i haven't talked to her yet but her boyfriend talked to her. she is really mad but she told him she just needed time out from the both of us. again thanx

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