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Q: I apoligize if this is in the wrong catagory. I was not sure what this would be considered as, but here is my question: I'm 16/f and I am unsure if I should go out with this guy. I am a devoted Christian and I pray for God to help me through a lot of this. But I am still unsure. I always give people a chance, because I believe that you can't really judge someone until you know them. Well when I met this guy he asked me out, but my other friend tells me he does drugs, he smokes, and he has this "bad boy" reputation. He's a really sweet and caring guy. And I kind of like him. But I don't want to end up going the wrong path if I am with him. And he's 16/m. What do you think I should do in this situation?
If you need more information about this situation you can e-mail me at xxmcrfan15xx@yahoo.com. Thank you in advance.
And I am sorry it's a bit long. I tried making it as brief as possible!
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First, keep praying to God. He will let you know what he wants you to do.
Second, you should find out if the stuff your friends are telling you about this boy is true or not. Do you think God is going to want you to go out with a boy that does drugs? I don't think so. He may want you to help him, but don't date him just yet.
Is he a Christian? Because that's what matters. & i don't mean a "Christian".. i mean an actual CHRISTIAN. One who lives by the word.
& if you are going to date him, you must have standards. Make a list. Put what you want in a guy [not just physical qualities, like, spirtuality.. and things along that line. you can put physical stuff down, too.. eye color, etc]. & then pray about it [we were told to do this by our youth pastor]. God has a guy waiting for every girl & vise versa.. maybe this guys not the one?
All i can tell you is do whatever God is telling you to do... & be careful.
God Bless,
Nikki.
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your advice was very informative and helpful. thank you !
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My name is Nikki. I'm 17. I like to act, play volleyball & softball, etc. Um, yeah. I am religious, but i won't judge you if you aren't. I like to give advice. I'm nice.. unless I'm annoyed. =] Yeah, that's basically it.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Kentucky Occupation: Student Age: 17 AIM: Member Since: November 18, 2004 Answers: 43 Last Update: October 8, 2006 Visitors: 4028
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