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I am 13 female and I am not sure if i am gay but I have a big crush onthis girl I have never loved girls before,been with a girl or kissed a girl.I went out with boys only.I really love her and its making me love sick and I am scared to tell her cause I don't want our friendship to end.I am not sure if she feels the sameway about me and if I tell she might panic and tell everyone and wreck all my friendships (link)
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There is a really good possibility that she WILL panic, not want to be around you anymore, and tell everyone. That's just what a lot of kids do at 13. I'm sorry, you seem really distraught over this...that's why I had to give you my two cents. I don't think you should say anything because your age is a very volitile one. Having a "crush" on a girl doesn't make you a lesbian, maybe you are and maybe you aren't. I think it might be just that there are many things about her that you really like, maybe you wish you could BE her in a way. Maybe you think she is really beautiful and are mistaking your notice of her looks as romantic attraction. I would wait until your a little older and less cofused about your feelings before expressing them to a potential partner.
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