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so my friend hates her life and her mom and stuff and idk what to do for her. it seems like theres nothing i can do, you know? so what should i do to kinda get her to appreciate her home-life more, and make her feel better about herself. because shes so pretty and shes always like "i dont think im pretty and i cant get guys" and stuff like that...so yeah, 5's for any help? thanks. (link)
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First of all, assess the situation. If she just hates her mom, then take her mind off it. If her mom physically or mentall abuses her, then you need to get her help. Even if she doesn't understand at first, she will apreciate it in the long run. (I have experience, and my friend later told me that my getting her help was one of the nicest things anyone's ever done for her.)
When she says that she isn't pretty or whatever, make her list 10 good things about herself or 10 things she does especially well.
Always make her laugh and let her know how much she means to you. Once, I was having a bad day, and I got an email from my best friend just saying how much I mean to her and it completely turned my day around. Do random acts of kindness like that and they will go along way.
Last of all, get her out of the house. Once my friend and I hung out at the library because we both wanted to go somewhere else so badly.
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