Member Since: May 21, 2006
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Last Update: May 21, 2006
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My boyfriend and I have been together now going on two years this October. We have had our problems, but we always manage to come through being much closer. I love him to death, and can’t imagine not having him as a part of my life. So here’s the problem, after about 7 months of being together I absolutely knew he was the one and we just were getting along so great. Then some guy came and proposed (or wanted to) but I said no (by the way I’m of Arab background). I was telling my bf about it, and he freaked out and said I should have accepted and met the guy. It really frustrated me, and hurt me a lot for him to tell me I should just marry the other guy. We talked and then he said his mother would not agree to him marrying me. I was crushed!! We have been on and off again (the on lasting much longer than the off) but I just don’t know what to do. I love him, and I don’t want to be with another guy (he is the first guy I have ever been with). Some days I find myself feeling really depressed because I keep remembering his mom. What should I do? My friends, sisters, even my MOM has told me we should just end it, but they don’t understand how much I care about this guy. He has already made it quite clear that he cannot go against his mother (arab society puts a high value to family ties). The reason she doesn’t say yes is because I was raised my whole life in the states, and my mother is American, but is that really my fault? Is it even something bad? Sorry this is so long, I just really feel awful and need some advice. :( help please! (link)
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You should tell both the guys to blow off. Obviously the guy you're with doesn't appreciate you or love you as much as you love him. There is deffinatly a better guy out there for you.It may not be the thing you want to do but its probably whats best for you. Well I hope you find the right guy.
bye
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thnx...but he duz love me (lool and im seriously not just being blinded by my feelings..im a very rational girl) i've tried leaving him...just doesnt work..i always find myself wandering back..or him wandering back to me.
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