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1. it's really nice of you to throw a surprise birthday party for your friend. to get over your jealousy, just remember that its still YOUR birthday, but this part of the day [the party] is HIS time to shine. you'll have plenty of time for your time to shine, && im sure people will still say to you, "Happy Birthday". or, you could always do it the day before or after his birthday not on the exact day so you won't feel like your special day is not what you'd want it to be.
2. you should have music so people can dance, thats what most people do at parties. or just chilling and talking, if you have like a foozeball table or pool table you could play that, too.
3. i would just invite both of them. it's not fair to you or "Joe" (who your throwing the party for) to not just because they don't lie each other. there will be enough people there that they don't have to hang out with each other - and if they start to cause drama, explain to them nicely that you want this to be a happy expierence for Joee and to please not start anything
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