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1.hey! I'm having a surprized birthday party for my friend(lets call him bob-13/m). our birthday's are on the same day so i kinda feel left out but i REALLY want to do this for him does anyone know how to get over my jealousy?
2.what games should we play or what should we do?
3. My friend(lets call her ann) doesnt like my other friend Lynn. I want to invite both but i dont want drama! Ann is one of those ppl who freak out on ppl so im kinda scared to NOT invite her. and Lynn is a REALLY nice person but she has a knack for braging and thats why alot of people dont like her. but i do. does anyone know what i can do about this problem?
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My advice to you to help you get over your jealousy is to think postively about what you are doing (that you are doing it for him and not for yourself.) You can always have a seperate party or get together to celebrate your birthday maybe earlier in the day or the following day, maybe invite some friends to go out to lunch or a movie or go get y'alls nails/hair done together before the party.. that way you are celebrating both yours and his at seperate times. I wish i could help you out more on games but im not to sure what people your age do these days and what y'all are into.. maybe play a movie, have music so y'all can dance..? (Wish i could help you out more on that question!!)
Here are some sites that may be helpful (they have different kinds of games for teenagers):
http://freespace.virgin.net/ken.tew/party/games4.html
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/birthdays/a/birthdayparty.htm
http://dmoz.org/Games/Party_Games/
Now the question about your 2 friends.. my advice on that is to talk to each of them before the party and let them know what you are thinkin and how you feel. Tell each of them (in a nice way) that your afraid something might happen (drama at the party) but that you want to invite both of them and if they could keep things cool for the night and save the arguin/braggin/fightin for another time. Let them know that you have invited both of them before the party so that there are no suprises (prepare them) and if they can't respect that maybe they shouldn't be there (even if they are good friends of yours.)
Hope this helps!!
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