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ok so their is this boy we can call him j and i REALLY like him. i am thinking about going out with him but my parents would freak out because hes mixed (white and black) and im white. their not racest or anything. they just disagree with me going out with a black/mixed/any race other then white person because they think that putting mixed children situation is wrong. i of coarce STRONGLY disagree! i think that it shouldnt matter what race you are. so as i was saying i want to go out with j but should i really go agenst what my parents say AND not tell them im going out with j?
what should i do??
please HELP!
..forget about your parents opinion.they think (probably) that "oh..he's part black he must be a thug"(very steo-typical.)hmmm..which isn't the case( i doubt..)it really shouldnt matter the race,and if you like him then nothing in this world will change that,your parents have an opinion and so do you.you said they disagree,but they cant forse you to stay away from him(well,i dont really know your parents..but keep it on the down low if u go out w/ him)i think you should go against your parents on this one..i no you really,really like him,but its not like this will be "to the end forever and ever,no matter what"they have to accept the people you go out with,they're being to jugemental.you just have to,well,not tell them if you want 2 go out with him..some things aren't ment to be told to parents..this is one.
anyways,good luck and i hope things turn out rite!!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks! :)