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Ohhhhhhkay. So my boyfriend and I have been together for awhile - I'm 18/f, by the way - and in the beginning of our relationship, I thought his mom liked me.
I even heard her say she did once. But as we've been together longer, I've gotten to know her better and I don't really like her...I mean I do, but there are things she does and says that I really, really don't like. I think she's picked up on that, and she doesn't like me.
I don't know if that's WHY she doesn't like me, or if she's one of those "no one's good enough for my baby!" types of moms, but whatever the reason, I think she dislikes me. I've also been told she doesn't like any of his girlfriends.
His dad seemed to like me too, but I'm not sure about that, either, now.
I...guess I want to win them over, but I'm not sure how. I've never had the issue where a boyfriend's parents didn't like me. It's usually my parents that don't like my boyfriends, but they like him this time. Odd.
At first it didn't matter to me at all, because I wasn't really in this for something serious, but it kinda got serious, and now I care...which is kinda bad...help?
Good spelling and grammar please...! (link)
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My boyfriends mom was the exact same way, i managed to get to the bottom of everything and she said, its because she felt i am taking her place in her childs life now she knows thats not what i was trying to do and we managed to work around it but the only way to fix what you've got going on, talk to her its the best thing you could ever do, not just for her mainly for yourself.
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Rating: 4
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Thanks. I will probably end up talking to her at some point. Just so you know, I gave you a four because your response was a run-on sentence. Advice is considered and listened to more when it looks professional. =)
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