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Q: I tend to flirt with alot of guys. I think its because Im very un-confident && it makes me feel better about my self but also it opens more opertunities relationship wise. The problem is that If one of them asks me out then it feels weird to me being in a relationship and also the guys get mad at me.

I haven`t been asked out but the guy that I fell deeply for is starting to talk to me again && its making me think that what if I do end up throwing all these other relationship possibilities away plus the friendships i have gaind for him && he ends up just using me or something.

I guess my problem is how do I choose one guy to like. But by choosing one guy what if he doesnt like me && i have no chance with him!

what should I do? I cant stop flirting because I do "like" all of these guys a little bit. I just kno ill get screwd over when one of them becomes serious && end up having a relationship

HELP!
I used to have the same problem and then I found the perfect guy for me and now we have been dating 2 years and 3 months and it has been amazing and believe me it is hard to stop at first. Before you decide to stick to one guy and start to change your ways you really need to make sure this is the guy that you could possibly have a long term relationship with and make sure he likes you in the same way also. Really because you don't want to be cheated on. And really you need to stop flirting so much because soon these guys are going to get the wrong ideas and you may end up hurting them and you really don't want any of that.


Well I hope I helped,
Good Luck

thanks that helped a lot!

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