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Q: This might sound a little conceited but I'm really not.


I've always gotten complements from guys, girls, family, and friends about my looks and them telling me that I'm pretty/hot/gorgeous/cute/etc.


And well, it seems like most guys just want to go out with me because of my looks. I'm going on a date with this guy I like this Friday and today I was talking to him when he said "I'm really excited about this weekend you're so hot and I finally have a chance with you"


That just kind of got me upset because what if my past dates/boyfriends only dated me because of looks?


Is it weird that sometimes I wish that I didn't look the way I do?
Let's be honest, you're always attracted to someone for the way they look before anything else.

But it's the mental part that matters most in a relationship. For a first date, maybe it's the looks that brought him in. But if he's serious about it, then he's serious about you too.

Yeah but there's a lot of people that date others based on looks all together, especially in high school.

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