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Hey, i know how you feel, ive never really had a proper bf either, im 13/f and i know your older so its probably worse for you, but all my mates have snogged, had tons of boyfriends ......... etc. I make an effort, like you, but nothing seems to work
Ive had a few bfs, but not proper ones cos theyve only been for dares. Last weekend i met a guy and he asked me out, i said yes just for the sake of having a boyfriend, even though i didnt like him. Now ive realised that i dont want go out with him (even though it feels cool to say i have a bf) so im blanking all his calls and now i just feel really bad and guilty.
So dont ever do that, you know, go out with a guy just for the sake of it.
It sounds strange that im gonna give you some tips because i havnt had a bf either, but recently i was talking to a few guy mates and they told me what attracts them to a girl, so thats where i got my tips from.
What guys like girls who:
1. are relaxed
2. are confident
3. smart with their own opinions
4. ignore the rumours about themselves
5. stand up for themselves
6. experiment with their looks
7. swing their hips
8. arent scared of guys
9. wont change thenselves for anyone
I dont think theres anyting wrong with you, most of the time you find a bf when your not looking, and yeah, i know its hard to not look for a bf, but try and just be yourself, here are some tips to make you the type of girl that all guys like:
1. wear what you want, not what you think will impress guys. Once you wear what your into, you'll feel more relaxed and guys will pick up on that
2. evveryday before you go out tell yourself that your gorgeous and that all the boys love you, you'll start to believe it
3. in classes, if you know the answer put your hand up to show that you ahve a brain, and if a few people near you are talking about who they want to win big brother or whatever, then join in and say what you think, this will show that you have your own opinions
4. if their arre any rumours about you going around, then ignore them and dont let them get to you
5. if anyone says anything mean to you then reply with a witty-putdown to show that you dont let anyone walk all over you
6. experiment with make-up looks, change your hair-colour sometimes, and go for different styles of clothes, this makes you appear daring and exciting, plus it could make you look more attractive
7. walk tall and swing your hips, you might feel a bit silly doing this, so instead of going out and doing it in public, walk like it at home, and after a while it will come naturally, and you will start walking sexily in public
8. talk to guys
Hope this helps xxx
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