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ok this is how it all started out
i have liked this dude for about 3 years
we just started going out in march
we broke up in april for 4 days due to.. the fact he didnt like me as much as i liked him
he said he thought about me for the 4 days.
and threw those 4 days i cryed and trained myself not to put to much emotion in to anything i love b.c im afraid of being hurt.. now we go back out.. and he loves me alot. like ALOT and i feel like i dont love him as much b.c when we broke up i trained myself to not put any emotion in to anyone or anything.. and now when he says i love you i dont believe him and i want to sooo bad.. i really love him.. its just i dont want to be hurt im scared. and what not... soo does this mean i dont love him...??? b.c i know i do.. its just im scared.. he tells me everynight he loves me.. i know he does.. its just ... im scared of being hurt...
and now im really sad i have been having a bad week and when we are together i dont talk and he thinks he has made me mad but he didnt... he asks me 5 times am i mad at him im like no...
what should i do..
i really love him..
just.. scared
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I think it'd be best if you'd just talk to him about it. If anything, he'd want to know why you're unhappy.
It's quite understandable on how you trained yourself.
Get interested in things, get closer to him, and you should probably get some space---not break up.
Do some sport, or something else to take your mind off your insecurities.
But I think he really does love you.
"You don't know what you've got until it's gone."
He seems to have realized how much you mean to him.
If you don't believe him, I think that's fine for now. (I don't really believe my boyfriend when he says it either.) I don't know him personally so I can't really tell much. Is he the type of guy to lie frequently? But anyways, you should try to believe him.
Is all I can think of right now--if you want you could talk to me / ask more questions.
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hes not the type of guy to lie. to anyone he loves... but i just dont want to screw it up....
me and him had a talk bout this for 30 mins.. he was kinda almost crying-ish and there was 30 mins pauses... and he was asking me why... and i dont want to tell him i trained myself.. but yeaa.. i dontk know..
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