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My name is Amy
Im 17 years old
I love helping people
I can answer any type of questions
I would be most helpful with:
-mental health issues such as anorexia,Bulimia,Depression etc.
-Fashion and style
I will try my best to help everyone with all types of problems.
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: xosimplisweeeto
Member Since: May 11, 2006
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I know we all have insecurities, but I'm pretty sure no one is as paranoid as I am. I'm not fat, but I'm not really skinny either. All the girls in my school seriously look like they are anorexic and the guys are all over them. I thought guys like curvy girls. Anyway, my best friend is a freakin' twig, and she has all these guys all over her. Seriously. It doesn't stop. Two of them even came to her house when she was sick because they're like obsessed with her because she's so beautiful. And I know I'm not ugly, but something inside of me keeps telling me that I am, and I need to get skinnier and more slutty and wear more make-up or stop wearing my hear a certain way. I used to be a really confident girl, but it's all changed now. I know like 2 guys think I'm hot, but that's TWO guys out of the whole school. Everyone likes my best friend. I mean everyone. It makes me sick.

So, my question is, how do I make that little voice inside my head stop saying "you're so fat, you need to be more like Danielle" or "don't do your makeup like that, that looks gross"? (link)
Hunny you aren't the only one who feels that way trust me..i am a teenager and i know exactly where you are coming from my insecurites however were so bad that i became anorexic/bulimic..my advice for you is that you should realize that you can be no one but yourself so don't try to be anyone else.The sooner you find that out & love the person you are on the inside the sooner you will love who you are on the outside..trust me i know its easier said than done because ive been through it. what i started to do was every time i thought how i wanted to be like someone else or thought i was fat or whatever negative thing i was thinking about myself..i thought of something good about myself. You should try to work on improving the person on the inside not the outside. everyone is beautiful in their own special way & real beauty is not what you see in magazines or in movies..real beauty shines with in!


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