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My name is Kambrey and I am a very oppinionated and strong willed person, however I am also very open-minded to new ways of thinking and others opinions. Being a minority where I live has helped open my eyes to the struggles of others. And since the minority I belong to is a religious one I am also very repectful of others beliefs, life styles and points of view. I know it's hard to be different sometimes, and even harder asking for help when your worried others are judging you. I'm NOT going to judge you. Period. My only purpose is to help. Feel free to hit me with ANY question you need help with! And to anyone reading my column with comments, oppinions or really any constructive critisism PLEASE let me know! Can't wait to hear from you! ~Kambrey
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all my friends are annoying me - they're not different or anything. They're not mean. But for some reason, I suddenly hate them all. I don't want to hang out with them, I hate talking to them. I do everything to avoid them. All of them. I hate my school. Yet I hate being at home. I just hate everything. I hate people. does that sound weird? Like PEOPLE annoy me. I don't want to be alone, but I just really don't want to be with anyone I knwo right now. What can I do to get rid of this feeling? Iäve had it for about 1 month and its pushing all my friends away..

Dear Reader,
In order to figure out how to fix the problem you need to find out what the real problem is. And I'm sorry to say it's probably going to be something that you will need to figure out on your own for the most part. Some of my suggestions for the quickest, easiest way to figure it out is start back from the begining of the problem. Try to remember everything that you were doing, everything that was going on in your life one month ago. List any factors that might have changed during that time period. It could even be a little thing that finally broke you down so write down EVERYTHING! Make it into an easy to read list. A lot of times when you list things on a paper right in front of your face you notice connections and obvious thought paths that you have never noticed before.
On a more pychological level of looking at your problem though, your feeling of not wanting to be around people could be a way for your body to tell you that you just need some quality time with yourself(cheesy as that may sound) to figure out some problem that has been facing you or to sort through your thoughts to make the best possible decision on a choice that may be arising in your near future. This is something that is more about you and what your feeling and dealing with then any of your friends; like you said they haven't changed or done anything different. It could also be a maturity thing. Maybe you've seen or gone through something in the last month that has pushed you through to a higher level of maturity and little things that your friends are doing that you didn't notice before your noticing now through new more mature eyes.
Make the list, think things over, the answer that you need will come to you in time.
~Kambrey

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