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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!!
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I'm going to get tested for STIs/STDs with my boyfriend. He's my first sexual partner, so if I have anything it would be from him. He has been sexually active for several years though, and about 4 years ago he had unprotected sex with 2 successive girlfriends, who he thinks may have been quite promiscuous.
So, there's a chance he could have something that hasn't shown up yet, i.e. HIV (I heard it can take up to 10 years to show).
If he has HIV and has passed it to me, I'd really rather not know as I think it would be the end of our relationship, and he is my absoloute soulmate.
So, my question is, if we both have HIV does it matter if we sleep together - it won't make it any worse surely?

STD's and STI's are a big issue. If he has HIV and has passed it to you, that is a problem, and you are aware of it.

If both of you, in fact, do have the virus, you can continue having unprotected sex. There is no way to get worse by having sex. The only way it gets worse is if it goes untreated.

Good luck and best wishes with you and your man.
xoxo
ali

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